tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3405619091794912972.post8333887602432566141..comments2024-03-10T07:14:33.790-03:00Comments on Procrastinating Donkey: Highlights & Lowlightsjenny_ohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15475480579733466963noreply@blogger.comBlogger30125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3405619091794912972.post-89113300469805127092022-08-29T16:03:17.721-03:002022-08-29T16:03:17.721-03:0037paddington: I'm finding the memory problems ...37paddington: I'm finding the memory problems with my mom are so unpredictable. Part of it is the time of day and how tired she is, part of it is how many people and conversations she is surrounded by, but part of it is just different from one moment to the next -- and that part is just the nature of dementia, I guess. I'm happy she had the second visit. It helped so much.<br /><br />John M: I seem to have avoided Covid -- at least this time! I'm sure there will be more scares in the future :)jenny_ohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15475480579733466963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3405619091794912972.post-72901724301000068102022-08-26T19:02:44.663-03:002022-08-26T19:02:44.663-03:00Feel betterFeel betterJohn Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18185765129472832100noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3405619091794912972.post-69636737231417603812022-08-26T14:57:54.940-03:002022-08-26T14:57:54.940-03:0037paddington:
Oh hon I hope by now you’re well out...37paddington:<br />Oh hon I hope by now you’re well out if the Covid woods. So interesting about your mom’s guests. Glad she was able to see them again when she could appreciate their presence. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3405619091794912972.post-36509354933316383752022-08-26T14:06:21.142-03:002022-08-26T14:06:21.142-03:00Mr. Shife: Thanks, you too :)Mr. Shife: Thanks, you too :)jenny_ohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15475480579733466963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3405619091794912972.post-19859369723892403542022-08-25T18:43:55.221-03:002022-08-25T18:43:55.221-03:00Happy Thursday, jenny_o. Happy Thursday, jenny_o. Mr. Shifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07061232966394052314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3405619091794912972.post-29782902027848896522022-08-21T22:59:35.842-03:002022-08-21T22:59:35.842-03:00DB Stewart: It seems I have escaped the wrath of t...DB Stewart: It seems I have escaped the wrath of the covid gods, thank goodness. I hope you and yours escaped as well. As for Mom, it's one thing to know what I should do; it's something else again to be able to do it consistently. Well, at least I'm making some progress :)jenny_ohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15475480579733466963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3405619091794912972.post-69689701328389833772022-08-20T16:52:04.300-03:002022-08-20T16:52:04.300-03:00We've had several covid exposures this month, ...We've had several covid exposures this month, sigh. Here's hoping. Glad to hear you feel like you are finding perspective on your Mom's dementia. Hang in there. DB Stewarthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15484034493143850659noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3405619091794912972.post-70181345076982228722022-08-18T22:47:13.788-03:002022-08-18T22:47:13.788-03:00John: Glad to provide the smile! I hope you are do...John: Glad to provide the smile! I hope you are doing okay there.<br /><br />Diane: So far, so good. It's been a week since my exposure ended, so I think I'm in the clear. And I hope I didn't just jinx myself :D<br /><br />baili: Thank you for your good wishes. I have a feeling this will probably get worse before it ends, so I need to prepare myself for that. Hugs, my friend.<br /><br />Mr. Shife: I think it's an easy mistake to make if you aren't familiar with bear spray already. I'm glad you didn't run into any bears! Have a good week :)jenny_ohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15475480579733466963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3405619091794912972.post-43405338305314498082022-08-18T18:10:27.943-03:002022-08-18T18:10:27.943-03:00Loved all of the funnies but the first one really ...Loved all of the funnies but the first one really hit home because my 10-year-old thought this is how it worked. We were in Montana and in bear country so we had to keep spray on us when we were hiking. Fortunately we only saw deers and no bears. Hope you are still feeling well and the virus didn't get you. Take care, jenny_o. Mr. Shifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07061232966394052314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3405619091794912972.post-67002869330140136722022-08-16T10:20:25.868-03:002022-08-16T10:20:25.868-03:00I am touched by your kindness and selflessness alw...I am touched by your kindness and selflessness always dear Jenny!<br /><br />Among all the odds you manage to look after your mom. How wise to take help from books and try to understand how you can keep it smooth.<br /><br />I can only imagine your stress when you have to be careful about covid and that if you have it can pass to your mom such a concern my friend may you be blessed with ultimate strength to go through all of this.<br /><br />I absolutely enjoyed the funnies. I didn't even know that bear spray existed though I remember long ago when my younger sister asked what she can bring for me from America I replied instantly " paper spray :) she did not brought this one even.<br /><br />May your days ahead be blessed with peace health and joy amen bailihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3405619091794912972.post-15987488711280269612022-08-15T19:16:18.227-03:002022-08-15T19:16:18.227-03:00Thank you for the funnies, and I hope you and your...Thank you for the funnies, and I hope you and your mom both stay healthy. Fingers crossed for you!Diane Hendershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07563115165301223420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3405619091794912972.post-51221528929094230542022-08-15T17:50:27.351-03:002022-08-15T17:50:27.351-03:00Great post, I needed a smile.Great post, I needed a smile.John Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18185765129472832100noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3405619091794912972.post-49472566443065331072022-08-15T16:05:24.285-03:002022-08-15T16:05:24.285-03:00kylie: I am SO thankful my niece and her daughter ...kylie: I am SO thankful my niece and her daughter could make another visit. It meant the world to my mom, and she has already forgotten the difficult visit that came before it, but not the "good" visit - that one, she remembers. Which is a bit strange, but I'll take it.<br /><br />Mike: You can't steal what isn't mine to start with - lol Feel free, spread the fun :)<br /><br />River: LOL! Me too :) Yes, I'm so glad my mom had a chance for a better visit. She had been looking forward to it for so long. My niece was also distressed about the first visit, and felt better after the second visit too.<br /><br />Mr. Pudding: I feel your first line is not so complimentary as you are trying to make it out to be :) You know, your analogy to armour is very apt. That's how I feel most days. I physically brace myself for my visits and often have to give myself a pep talk. It's stressful. But I do my best, because there's really no choice, and many MANY other folks are dealing with worse situations (both dementia and otherwise). I appreciate your encouragement.<br /><br />jenny_ohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15475480579733466963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3405619091794912972.post-34504484983233853952022-08-15T15:57:36.518-03:002022-08-15T15:57:36.518-03:00Steve: Yes, I'm hoping that this variant truly...Steve: Yes, I'm hoping that this variant truly is less serious than the ones that came before! And, you were wise to nod and smile with your parents. The times it gets really hard for me is when she starts criticizing other people because she has forgotten the facts. Or when I am trying to help (say, suggesting lighter clothing on a hot day) and she immediately goes into oppositional mode. But I'm trying to just let it be :)<br /><br />Charlotte: I think this approach will be better overall! Thank you for your good wishes.<br /><br />Doug: I'm picturing using the bear spray like mosquito repellent - not sure if I read something about it somewhere else, maybe? I hope there was no bear around at the time because the person would have been easy pickings :) Yeah, far fewer people are wearing masks here now. I'm not really happy about that, despite being resigned to this being the reality.<br /><br />Marie: Me, too - let's hope!!<br /><br />Mimi: I'm a slow learner, but usually I EVENTUALLY learn :) lol Glad to provide the laughs as well.<br /><br />Martha: There are a lot of cases in NS since the government lifted all restrictions. Which makes me think the restrictions were a good idea ... except we were all vulnerable once they were done away with. At least the current variant is less deadly for most people. I hope that if I get it, it's as mild as my boss's case is.<br /><br />Joanne: My boss has chosen to stay home for the recommended time, which is good. And I am out of work at the moment, so I don't have to go to the office this week anyway. I'm amazed that you avoided the virus, given the circumstances, but very glad you did!<br /><br />e: Yes, I am learning quite a bit. I wouldn't have chosen to do so, but isn't that the same way most people feel about hard times? It was hardest last year when I was trying to process my husband's death. It's somewhat easier now.<br /><br /> jenny_ohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15475480579733466963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3405619091794912972.post-26215396255277684972022-08-15T14:56:11.841-03:002022-08-15T14:56:11.841-03:00Blogpost read in its entirety and approved for con...Blogpost read in its entirety and approved for consumption in North Korea.<br /><br />I am glad that I never had to witness my mother's descent into dementia. It must be tough. Keep up the good work Jenny and remember to put on your armour each time you visit - forged from kindness, patience, pragmatism, duty and love.Yorkshire Puddinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06019673884543913089noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3405619091794912972.post-72219918231575170232022-08-15T04:08:19.460-03:002022-08-15T04:08:19.460-03:00"I've lost control of the day.." Bee..."I've lost control of the day.." Been there!<br />I hope you or your Mum don't get Covid. it's nice you've learned a way to cope, nice too that she got a second visit with family and was able to remember them and have a conversation.Riverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14794655013673748992noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3405619091794912972.post-34037427143858609282022-08-15T02:42:54.987-03:002022-08-15T02:42:54.987-03:00If I run short of jokes for next Saturday I may co...If I run short of jokes for next Saturday I may come back and steal most of these.Mikehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00017192454403363349noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3405619091794912972.post-45826902410910328342022-08-14T23:47:40.064-03:002022-08-14T23:47:40.064-03:00I hope you don't get covid but if you do, I ho...I hope you don't get covid but if you do, I hope it's mild and soon gone.<br /><br />It's wonderful that your family members were able to come back to see your mom. That visit will be memorable for a long timekyliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08964475783207438103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3405619091794912972.post-67758431436400547812022-08-14T22:28:29.380-03:002022-08-14T22:28:29.380-03:00I hope you stay well and double mask anyway just t...I hope you stay well and double mask anyway just to be careful. It sounds like your mother's illness is teaching you a lot.ehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11376645220662546020noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3405619091794912972.post-17629581135816097882022-08-14T21:43:19.639-03:002022-08-14T21:43:19.639-03:00Here's some encouragement. I was exposed to Co...Here's some encouragement. I was exposed to Covid, twice and a half. Both people in my house got it, one really bad, and one got it twice. I just stayed away (don't let your boss come to work!) Wash your hands and face everytime you must go into his office for something. If you must call him for any sort of resolution, do not let him come in the office.<br />Oh, the irony of it.<br />Love you.Joanne Noragonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16601010208310707750noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3405619091794912972.post-34579500127628973462022-08-14T19:25:33.124-03:002022-08-14T19:25:33.124-03:00Thank goodness for all the online information avai...Thank goodness for all the online information available to us now to learn about how to deal with health issues like dementia! And I do hope you have a mild case if you test positive for COVID. Many people I know have caught it in the past couple of months and luckily they all did well. The funnies were hilarious! The one about the bear spray and the one about amazon...my two favourites!Marthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07470947568183528236noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3405619091794912972.post-89055802970224067812022-08-14T19:13:58.453-03:002022-08-14T19:13:58.453-03:00You are doing a tremendous job under great pressur...You are doing a tremendous job under great pressure.<br /><br />Thanks for the laughs!messymimihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10649529601786689712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3405619091794912972.post-22180573414286441642022-08-14T18:34:11.283-03:002022-08-14T18:34:11.283-03:00I hope you can stay Covid free as well as your mot...I hope you can stay Covid free as well as your mother. You have enough to handle already. Take care!Marie Smithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03882722634065183364noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3405619091794912972.post-85249455399341430502022-08-14T17:36:15.114-03:002022-08-14T17:36:15.114-03:00 Good luck with the covid thing. I was worried a l... Good luck with the covid thing. I was worried a little after I went to the community meeting last month as it was the first time I had been unmasked among others without masks since the pandemic started. It was outside and apparently I need not have worried. I still wear an N95 at the grocery store, though very few others seem to wear anything on their faces.<br /> So did they use the bear spray like insecticide or mosquito repellent? <br /><br /> -Doug in Sugar Pine <br /><br /><br /><br /> dinthebeasthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12941071534250216503noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3405619091794912972.post-45733183999192252802022-08-14T16:48:46.158-03:002022-08-14T16:48:46.158-03:00Oh, I so hope you do not catch the unmentionable v...Oh, I so hope you do not catch the unmentionable virus!!! fingers, toes and everything crossed. <br />It sounds like you found a modicum of peace with your mother, I fervently hope the journey will become smoother from here on. <br />All the best wishes from Denmark. Charlotte (MotherOwl)https://www.blogger.com/profile/01059356989361649639noreply@blogger.com