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Sunday, 28 September 2025

In Memory of Blogger Sue

Today I am mourning fellow blogger Sue from Elephant's Child

Our first contact was sometime prior to 2013, on a blog that has been dormant for many years. I was drawn into Sue's orbit by her thoughtful, supportive comments and became a regular visitor to her blog. She encouraged me to start my own blog and we began an email correspondence that has spanned the years since then.

I will remember Sue for her commitment to finding beauty in the everyday and in the smallest things. It is an outlook I have tried to take on in my own life.

I will remember Sue's empathy, encouragement, huge heart, and generosity.

I am inspired by and admire her courage in the face of her debilitating MS and her more recent cancer diagnosis.

In a recent post, Sue mentioned that she hoped to be remembered above all else for her work with Lifeline, a crisis support and suicide prevention service. She was a telephone volunteer and I am very sure that she was already remembered with gratitude by the people whose lives she helped to extend and save through her skilled and careful listening and intervention.

She will also be remembered by those of us who read of her annual walk for suicide prevention.

Sue made that walk this year, in September, just days before her health began its final descent.

I don't know if her family will ever read this post, but I will put a link to it on her final blogpost. I hope they know how Sue touched so many people around the world. I hope they also feel our support as they grieve the life of an amazing woman. To her partner, her brothers, and her in-laws, as well as her real-life friends, and her current furry companions, I send my deepest, heartfelt sympathy for their loss.

Rest easy now, dear friend.

You will live on in the hearts and minds of those who knew and loved you.





33 comments:

  1. A thoughtful tribute.
    I missed the walk this year, but I will be there again and now I will think of Sue too.

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    1. She was so dedicated to helping others; it was inspiring.

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  2. Thank you for posting this, Sue was so special, and I know we are all going to miss her.

    On Wednesday, I'm planning to say something on my blog, too.

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  3. This is so beautiful, all the words I could not find yesterday are here, thank you. It's so hard to see the keyboard through the waterfall of tears.

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    1. I know I missed some things, but I felt compelled to just type and publish.

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  4. Who knew that was her last post, and so full of photos of beautiful flowers in her beloved garden. I meant to mention her walk for suicide prevention but I learnt the news late evening and I was so shocked. Thanks for your kind words about someone who was much respected and loved.

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  5. Sue was a lovely person, kind, thoughtful, a beautiful soul. So generous. When I couldn't buy Marmite here in Canada, she sent me some from Australia. She was a special lady and she will be missed..

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    1. "A beautiful soul" - a great way of putting it.

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  6. I only knew of her from the comments she left here, but your words are moving and I extend my condolences.

    -Doug in Sugar Pine

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    1. She was a truly good person. Thank you, Doug.

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    1. As did you - I know I forgot a few things I wish I'd remembered, but I needed to get it out of my head into a post.

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  8. Another lovely blog writer gone. She will be missed by many, not just in blogland. Thankyou for writing this

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    1. Indeed. Sometimes we forget our fellow bloggers have family and friends in their private lives. They must be feeling the loss so much.

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  9. I didn't know, so I thank you for this post. I haven't spent much time in the blogosphere for several months. She will be missed by many people. She was lovely, compassionate, and kind.

    Love,
    Janie

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    1. Yes, wasn't she? Just a truly good person, always thinking of others.

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    1. But you found just the right ones as the shock wore off, Charlotte. You wrote a thoughtful and meaningful post.

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  11. My condolences to you and all who knew and loved her.

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    1. Thank you, and there seem to have been so many of us.

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  12. A lovely tribute, I am so sorry she is gone...

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    1. Yes indeed. She had a hard time, especially lately.

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  14. Thank you for writing this. We will miss her tremendously.

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  15. What a beautiful tribute to Sue. Your memories capture her warmth, resilience, and the positive influence she had on so many in the blogging community and beyond. May her memory continue to inspire kindness, empathy, and a love for the everyday beauty she found and shared with so many.

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  16. Dear Jenny I read this post with melting heart and wet eyes 🥹
    Sue was regular visitor I believe on my blog as well in the beginning year’s of my blogging. But when my parents died and I went on long break and returned after a year almost I think . She visited rarely.
    I still visited her once in a while which ever she was in my thoughts. I loved her blogging and her photography specially.

    She had way with words indeed that touched heart always!
    You gave her truly beautiful tribute my friend 🙏
    May she rest in peace ameeen 🙏🥹🙏🙏🙏

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  17. We are all poorer for her loss. This is a beautiful tribute to a soul who made her life count. Thank you Jenny. May she rest easy now.

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